He has lived outside Madrid in various
parts of the world, from distant Taiwan to Equatorial Guinea, but when he came
to our island, 2,5 years ago, he got "stuck" and now does not seem to
want to change that experience with anything.
I met him
when his Apokoronian friend , Manolis Pettakakis, brought him to walk with us
through the gorge of Kolikoude. He
impressed me with his calmness , his enthusiasm for this new place but
also with his choice to live in a small village of Chania. And finally, I was
correct and this is the case of a man worth talking about.
Balos |
As he told
me, he learned of Crete from one of his two brothers when he came here for a
vacation. He described him the wild beauty of our country, how hospitable and
different the Cretans are, and how well they relate to the English language, so
it's easy to get in touch with them.
Without
waiting to hear more and without an exploratory trip, he gathered his things
and traveled to Crete with the prospect of staying for three months in
Almyrida, where he rented his first home.
Ombrosialos, his beloved beach a short distance from the village where he lives. |
Let's note
that Alberto has studied economics and maintains an import-export business in
Spain that does not need his physical presence, since all his work can be done
through the Internet.
Crete has
really enchanted him from the very first moment that he stepped his foot on her
ground. After the end of the three months, he searched for a new home with a
garden this time, so that besides getting to know the beauties of the island he
also gets acquainted with how to cultivate his products.
His retreat
and base was found in Kefalas Apokoronas. Now having completed 2.5 years in
Crete he sees the perspective of leaving Crete, to get to know some other land ,
from difficult to very distant.
His garden at Kefalas |
Although he
is not very old in his age, he likes the quiet life and it is this he could
find in Crete, making him feel fulfilment .
When he
told me that he thought that for the first time in his life he could find his
place , on earth, here in Crete, i asked him to be more specific and he really did
not stop listing the things that
fascinated him.
Kourtaliotiko Gorge, he went twice in a few days because he loved it. |
Apart from
the beautiful, fantastic and incredible nature, (the ratings are his), he also
found on our island the incomparable hospitality of its people.
"I
missed Spain only a very few times, because here i feel as if I’m home,"
he says, explaining that there are many similarities to Spain, due to the
Mediterranean character of Greeks and Spaniards that "emit" at the
same frequency.
Here in
Crete, he adds, he made some unique friends, like Manoli. Alberto highly
evaluates the true human communication and connection . That is why he
emphasizes that the people he met here and became friends ….touched his heart
and soul.
A small part of his garden where he spends hours daily caring for his vegetables. |
Manolis
taught him to cultivate ... the “Cretan way” his garden at his house in
Kefalas. Indeed, even the “katifedes” flowers have been planted in it, as the
Cretans did in the past. At the same time, Alberto is in a constant search for
environmental friendly cultivation method,s since he does not want his
products to even have a trace of
pesticide.
He is vegan
himself, so all his food is related to
vegetables, fruits and legumes. Last year in fact , from just four olive trees
in his house, he produced his first olive oil, about 25 liters, which he uses
in his kitchen. As his friends say he is a perfect cook.
Obrosgialos |
All this, and the way he chose to live have, as he says, multiplied the quality of his life by 2-3 times or
perhaps even more,. This, of course, does not mean that there is nothing he
finds negative with living in Crete. The use of weapons, the way many people
drive in our streets, smoking where it is forbidden or the rubbish here and
there, are some.
Alberto
usually goes wherever he goes to live, for a cycle of about 2.5-3.5 years. He
knows in advance how this circle will close. In Crete he is already 2.5 years
and does not think of leaving. At some point, when it passed through his mind
that he has the habit of changing countries and places, he found that a
decision to leave our island would be very difficult for him .
To people
like the Cretan loving Spaniard, this rhythm of life fits well. He believes
that, as humans, we Cretans are closer to things that are worth and counting
for just as he himself is.
In Spain
for example , in order to see his friends he had to arrange the meeting days
before while here to see his friend Manolis he just has to make a
phonecall and in half an hour they are
together. In Madrid he went to the movies
three or four times a week and thought he would miss this favorite habit
. Soon he found out that here it doesn’t even cross his mind . As for the sea
... he loves the fact that driving for ten minutes takes him to his beloved
beach, Omprosgialos. He can go there to swim and return to his house in half an
hour . This would seem unthinkable elsewhere.
Gavdos, when he went there, he was charmed and therefore is constantly talking about this place |
When he
goes to Madrid to see his family, he describes that he faces angry, aggressive,
people who live only to consume. Their happiness is the acquisition of material
goods which holds only for a few minutes
. These people continue to be trapped in a setting that does not have an exit.
"I am
so happy here," he says by closing our conversation, and we really have no
reason not to believe him but instead to envy him because he really seems to
have found the meaning of life.
Eleni Vasilaki
(Thanks to mr Christos Zografidis for the translation into English)
(Alberto's
photo material was given to us by him showing places he visited in Crete. He
does not have the words to describe the emotions these places caused him)